Can you believe its almost 20 years into the new millennial?
2020. Yes wow 2020. And with that it's time to put down the excuses and wake up to the reality of change. So many people crave change on this planet, but most people are SO resistant to changing themselves. They want a revolution and the government to change, but the change starts with yourself.
Everyone wants to blame the president as narcissist, but fail to realize that they are just as narcissistic, self-absorbed and many men are just as abusive and womanizers as the billionaire dogs at the top of the totem pole. He is a human being just like you. And you reading this have the choice and the wisdom to evolve or not.
In this world of individuality, the revolution starts with you, and changing yourself. And facing your shadow. And NEVER stopping at improving yourself.
So many people want change to happen like the click of a button, but it doesn't work like that. Change takes time. It takes time to find the right therapist, or the right yoga teacher, or the right meditation track, or the right pastor. These things take time and experience. So many people try once, fail and then give up and cycle in negative belief systems.
As an Aquarian, trust me that the change starts with you. Society has sold you many many lies and it's time to STOP BLAMING society and other people and TAKE CHARGE of your life.
But only you can do it. I've written in other blogs and Youtube videos that being passive will get you no where. It takes a while to overcome shyness and passivity, but its 2020 people, it's time to walk forward and take care of your issues, life, personality, wounds, trauma etc.
All you need to do is focus on one-percent changes. Thought + Action = Results. Sometimes it takes various methods of action in order to get the "right" results.
Here are three ways to change this new year:
The great thing about change today is that you don't need an abundance of wealth. There are so many free community classes, sliding scale counseling, free advice on blogs and Youtube. There is a way to change without blowing your budget. Change is not easy. It's a journey, not a final destination. Just know that there are countless tools and resources to help you along the way.
Elizabeth Rae Kovar M.A. is Author of her memoir, Finding Om and is a Fitness Trainer, Yogi, Reiki Master, Presenter and Lover of Life. To view her portfolio please visit www.elizabethkovar.com