In my recent post, I spoke about visitation dreams and why these dreams occur. I wanted to share two powerful visitation dreams that I received from my uncle. Both were important in my life and in my spiritual development.
On June 9, 2012 I sat with a new friend in a coffee shop in Lower Queen Anne. I received a phone call from an unknown Cleveland number. My instinct wanted to answer the phone, btu I did not want to be rude so I ignored the couple calls. My friend went to the bathroom and I saw an email that said “READ ASAP.” I ignored the email until several hours later. I got an email from my uncle’s friend who said to call the Westlake Police Department ASAP.
My gut dropped and I knew something was wrong with my uncle. I thought maybe he did something stupid like drink and drive and needed bailed out of jail. The officer on the phone stated, “I am sorry to inform you but Martin Kovar is dead. It looks like a suicide and we are investigating the scene. He seems to have been dead for a week.”
Suicide is sad. Suicide is intense. Suicide wrecks and fucks the living’s mental state harder than one can imagine. For five days straight I did nothing but cry, wonder and worry.
At this point in my life, I worked a job that paid fantastic money for fitness and offered the best health insurance in the state. But, my boss was a nightmare and harassed his staff and me everyday. Every day I cried in the car on the way to work as just crossing the city lines felt like a black hole that sucked my soul into a burning hot cauldron of hell. To say the least, I was down in the dumps after his death.
About a week after his death, I had a visitation dream from him. It was very intense and included his two pet snakes. This dream I did not particularly remember all the details, but I awoke suddenly with the words, “celebrate life.” For years, I wanted to create a website, but did not know how to brand myself. Because of his death and this insight from the dream, I moved forward with my goal. Several months later, I made a mistake at work that my boss used against me saying I “committed a conflict of interest” scenario. I made a YouTube video about a workout that I was going to offer at the fitness center, but uploaded the video on my website.
My boss disliked me because I would not succumb to his threats. My inner-warrior shined and we did not get along in the work place. I had strong convictions about my website and brand because it was spiritual to me. At this time, I also mentored with a talented fitness professional who is one of the biggest leaders in the fitness industry. When I got the notice that the fitness center wanted to “release me from my duties” my anticipated last day of work could have been November 7th, which was the also the birthdate of my mentor. I took this as a sign that I was on the right path to something bigger and better and to release all fears about money.
On the night of June 18-19, 2015 I encountered another visitation dream from my uncle. At this point, I had thoughts about undergoing past life hypnotherapy and connecting deeper to the spiritual world. I wanted to know who I was and “see” life on the other side. I don’t know why, but this stuff fascinates me. I lucid dream on a regular basis and my uncle was on my mind recently due to his “death anniversary.” Without knowing, I had a dream where I was living in Germany, but my apartment was in Seattle.
I sat at the kitchen table to write and then got up to go to the closet. I opened the door and my uncle appeared out of the closet. He looked the same as I remembered him, but a bit older. I was so happy and elated to see him. Between the two dreams I consulted a powerful psychic who clarified the answers I sought regarding his death. I was not scared and I had a laundry list of questions.
I kept saying, “I can’t believe this is real. This is not a dream.” He kept mumbling about stuff, but I became curious to know about the after life. I asked him if there was a heaven and a God. He confirmed and said that when you leave your body God holds your hand and welcomes you to heaven. Fascinated, I kept asking questions, “Are there such things as angels? And spirit guides?”
He replied, “Oh yes, angels and spirit guides are very real and they do exist.” I replied, “I can’t wait to tell people about this and dad will be so happy to see you again.” I remembered getting said because I could not see him in the awake state. He said, “You know I’m okay. It had to happen. Stop being sad about my death.” Deep down I knew he was okay, but something inside of me wanted to overcome my happiness with sadness. Because well, suicide is sad and human life is precious.
I asked him about his pet snake that was still alive after his death and after our conversation he seemed sad or anxious and disappeared for a bit.
The dream continued and my husband, dad and sister appeared in the room. I said, “I can’t wait for you to see Uncle Marty again. Just be patient, I promise he’ll reappear.”
Out of the closet, my uncle appeared and sat at the kitchen table. I turned to my family and said, “I can’t believe this. This is real right? This is not a dream, right?”
We all turned to each other, and they were stunned at what they saw. My dad replied, “This is definitely real. This is not a dream. I can’t believe this.” I think they were shocked but the feelings I felt were that, “okay okay, she’s right with her spiritual beliefs.”
When it was time for him to go, he disappeared into thin air and my dream continued. I think the dream served many purposes. One was to say “hello,” but allow me to connect to the spiritual world. I knew after a decade of “finding myself” I felt ready for this next step.
I share these examples because these dreams played a purpose at different stages of my life. Even if a soul visits to resolve issues, it’s for you and the soul’s highest good.
If you’d like to share a visitation dream, please do so in the comment box. Also, if you are a dream expert and would like to provide insight to my examples, I welcome any comments.
Elizabeth Rae Kovar M.A. is Author of her memoir, Finding Om and is a Fitness Trainer, Yogi, Reiki Master, Presenter and Lover of Life. To view her portfolio please visit www.elizabethkovar.com