Is that specific person in your life a soul mate? Or a twin flame? How do you know the difference? Some use the words interchangeably but the most important thing is to not over rationalize if the person is a mate or a flame.
Before we begin, the one thing to recognize is that with the growth and popularity of “new age” concepts they become “trends” rather than known for its sacred meaning. I may not have all the answers for you, but will lead you to additional resources that you may find helpful.
A soul mate is a deep, spiritual connection that can be a friend, family member, lover or acquaintance. Both people can have many traits in common as well as differences. The person “gets you” and both people are riding the wavelength or frequency. The connection is deep and both people enjoy being around each other. It’s not as light and airy as a typical relationship.
Universal signs may present themselves when meeting each other and like a magnet there is something attracting you to the person. It may feel like you’ve known each other for a long time or there is a sense of comfort that you do not feel with “ordinary” people. A soul mate is balancing. In simple terms, if looking at a chart of the chakras, one person may be more stable and rooted from the bottom three chakras where the other person is stronger in the intuitive and upper three to four chakras. This makes the union complete and balanced in all areas of our energy centers. So, it is possible that one soul mate is more logical, practical and stable where the other is more spiritual, intuitive and spacey.
A soul mate too can have physical looks or markings that remind you of your past. For example, the person can have the same features as your past lover(s) that show a progression for the meeting with this being.
Many people have their own theory on this topic. Several months ago, I watched a video from a lady who researched math and geometry as part of her PhD. Her discussion about twin flames said that many people claim it’s the “one soul split into two.” Although this can be true, she mentioned that with the law of math and geometry, what doesn’t make it possible for God or the universe to split that soul into fours or eights? So, is it possible to have to four or 8 twin flames on the planet?
From my experience, a twin flame is more of that “mirror” image. So if like staring at yourself in the mirror, you’ll most likely enjoy your twin flame. Universal signs will boom as large as the “big bang” and you’ll experience deeper gut and bodily feelings. There are more ironic signs such as if you like white rabbits, the person may have a white rabbit tattooed on their body. Thanks to karma, you both will be working on your own lessons that have similar stories. For example, both people may have had abusive parents or work in the same career field. You can also have the same career goals. For example, you both may want to open an Italian café that grows olive trees in the courtyard.
There will be differences between both people, but there will be no other place you’d rather be than with your twin flame. A twin flame relationship is serious. You both signed up for this lesson to increase humanity’s frequency and it’s your duty to figure “it out.” Like soul mates, not every twin flame will be with each other romantically, but having a mature approach to life and separating spousal infidelity (if married) will benefit humanity.
Some claim this is your other half, and certainly time “will stop” when with each other. But time also stops with soul mates. To easily note, both are deep, meaningful connections, but usually twin flames present something more of the same whether its birth mark locations, upbringing or career choices.
Have you met a soul mate and/or a twin flame? If so, MBSF would love to hear what you have to say and how you compare and contrast soul mates versus twin flames.
I recommend the following link to discover more about the sacred love of twin flames:
10/25/2015 05:28:21 pm
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10/26/2015 12:47:43 am
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1/6/2018 01:16:59 pm
Hi i think ive met my twin flame we met nearly 2 years ago on the side of a rd she was selling a motor home the meeting was so powerful as we talked we spent 5 hours talkingsince then she became a runnnerwe live 2 and a half hours away we travel back and forward but each visit she cuts of from me we share simular lifes had the same amout of children we have mirror body marks a mole on our brestmine the right hers the leftboth have garlic in the front of our hairs mine the right again her the left she has a bith mark on her leg the same shapes my daughter has on her chin we share the same fear of being homeless we went to the same name first school Parramatta state school in two diffrents states our first hone was in nabouring suburbs we had our children in the same town thousands of miles away from where we were born my number match with her Sons i had my cards done years ago and was told my name was Daniel in a former life her first son is called Daniel. My twin has the same eyes as mine and our hands arms are the same im am a builder she wants to be one the same sex thing is an issues for her but not for me any way that a little of who we are regards coral 0431597650 Australia
6/29/2021 03:39:09 pm
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10/21/2021 11:02:04 am
I recently met my own twin flame and although in England and now aged 60 your story resonates as my first twin flame was a girl from Dundas in my teens and we first set eyes on each other in David Jones, Parramatta !
2/12/2019 07:16:37 am
I feel this could be my twin flame I also feel he sends me telepathic messages
10/27/2015 06:07:51 am
I'm in a relationship with someone who matches the description of a soul-mate (also I feel I knew him in a past life). We have some similarities in personality but are quit opposite, which helps to balance out the relationship but can also lead to conflict or arguments. At times it's hard for me to "get inide of his head" because he is so different from me. I am also freinds with someone who matches the description of a twin flame. He loves me dearly and we understand each other well because we are just alike. I am so confused at this moment because sometimes I feel that I might want to be romantic toward him but I love my boyfriend dearly. I feel much stronger emotions toward my 'soulmate' yet while I don't feel intense emotions around my 'twin flame', I feel calm and trust him more. Advice?
10/27/2015 08:11:03 am
Hello, Thank you for reading and commenting. These situations are never easy and can be very confusing. First, I do believe time will tell and I do believe life will guide (or cue us) on certain things. So, if you have trust issues, doubt or a feeling of uneasiness w/ the boyfriend, there is a reason why. You may not know it yet but any dis-ease is coming from a reason. It could be him or it could be you. I know these are not concrete answers, but I feel that we all have to sense our personal logic and intuition on why we feel this way.
10/27/2015 02:21:56 pm
Thank you for the advice, it has resonated with me. I will continue to reflect on the situation and let my intuition guide me.
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6/23/2018 11:10:22 am
I have been with my boyfriend for about five months. I’m a nurse and he’s a doctor. We are a year apart but have so much in common that particularly a guy my age would not be interested in.
7/13/2018 10:58:17 pm
Mine was a roller coaster ride before I met my twin flame again. We got separated from college and after that I learned that he got someone pregnant and got married. As for me after that, life's been hell. I got married to a man who abused me for 10 years. When I finally had the courage to leave him, I did. And while I'm slowly getting on my feet again. My twin flame came back into my life. And it's like nothing has changed. Maybe just our love, it's much deeper and meaningful now.
5/20/2022 06:20:02 am
I think i met my twin flame we have the same moles on our left hands same place same mole then we have alot in common in our lives he went through what im going through now divorced parents abusive drunk dad and i was married to and abusive drunk that i have a son with also a libra like my boyfriend and we have this deep connection sinc day one he would know exactly what im thinking and i can feel him from far when he texts me something will tell me to check my phone when he was away an got home i knew i could feel it checked my phone and he was busy typing me a messege its weird i needed a light one night and when he came in from his house i came straight to the bathroom and put on his portable light , i was shocked he just wicnked at me and this happens alot , does this mean we were meant tkbe together or just in each others lives?
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Elizabeth Rae Kovar M.A. is Author of her memoir, Finding Om and is a Fitness Trainer, Yogi, Reiki Master, Presenter and Lover of Life. To view her portfolio please visit www.elizabethkovar.com